Winnie the Pooh
Lisa Harris • 2 March 2016
Today, I walked past a poster, which said something like:
“How do you spell love?” asked Piglet. “You don’t spell love,” said Pooh, “you feel it.”
With the Alexander Technique, you can read books about it, and do some of the things the books suggest. But to really get the best out of it, you need a teacher to give you the experience. All the words in the world don’t give the experience … they describe it.
And sometimes, you can have the experience without the words. I’m reading a book about Shakespeare by Ben Crystal in which he is talking about Shakespeare’s poetry, and by way of metaphor he says:
“Think about it in terms of Italian opera. I don’t speak Italian, but I could go to an opera sung in Italian and I’d enjoy it on a basic level: I’d revel in the fights, the lights, the sounds and the raw emotions. Or I could … learn a little Italian and maybe read the libretto before I go.”
Back to the Shakespeare and he goes on to say:
“Or … learn a bit of Shakespearian before going to see a play of his, and unlock a treasure chest of life-changing jewels in his work.”
So, if you’d like to “unlock a treasure chest of life-changing jewels”, come and have an Alexander lesson!
Watch Laura's first AT lesson and her response
Exchanging and sharing
Exciting new research
Well, this cheetah is certainly movement-based and embodied! I saw the words 'movement-based embodied contemplative practices' in a journal I was reading recently. The authors included Alexander Technique, Tai Chi, Qigong, Yoga and Aikido among others in their description. I liked the phrase, because it is a good explanation of the Alexander Technique, which can evade description at times. (He who tastes, knows!). The Alexander Technique is not about being overly relaxed or too tense. It is about being calm and alert and ready in the moment to respond as appropriate. Think of a cat sitting with its ears pricked up as it watches someone rolling a ball of wool (or, to get a bit more up-to-date, the red beam of a laser pointer!) at its feet. It has a stillness, and yet you know it could pounce in an instant. It is a skill that takes time to develop, but helps you maintain an unflustered presence in life, whatever is thrown at you. The authors of the paper, from 2014, are Smalzl, Crane-Godreau and Payne .
After that lovely snowy weather, I slipped on ice on Monday and now have a fractured wrist bone all splinted up. As I felt shaken up and my whole hand was painful, I was reminded of the self-compassion break I discovered researching for my MSc in Positive Psychology. That is, at a time of pain, discomfort, negative self-judgement or other form of suffering, to stop and say to yourself: This is a moment of suffering; All humans suffer; May I be kind to myself. With the ongoing demands of lockdown, homeworking, children at home and so on, I think we could probably all do with some self-compassion right now. This is a practice taken from Buddhism, I believe, and more information on self-compassion and some free downlands can be found at www.self-compassion.org. Warm wishes, Lisa
I recently heard this quote from James Joyce's The Dubliners: "Mr Duffy lived a short distance from his body." I think many of us quite often live a short distance from our bodies! We get bound up in what we are doing, and can forget we've even got a body at all. I find that when I'm studying this can happen. Yet coming back to the body is like coming home. I do believe that when we are in our bodies, our innate wisdom can come to the fore and this will help us in life. At the moment, when we are spending so much time online, I think it's even more important. There are many ways to come into your body - tai chi, yoga, meditation ... or you could try the Alexander Technique!
Well, as we can't go on holiday at the moment, I was reminiscing by looking through some photos from a holiday at the end of last year in Gran Canaria. I came across one I had taken of a quote by Antonio Padron, a Canarian painter, in a museum dedicated to his work. The reason I took it was that it made me think of the Alexander Technique! He wrote that, once he'd finished a painting, he considered it "conquered territory". Presumably, he then started another one! I'm not sure that with the Alexander Technique we ever conquer ourselves! But FM Alexander did say "The experience you want is the process of getting it. If you have something, give it up. Getting it, not having it, is what you want." I find that really inspiring!
Well, my use of screens, both the laptop and my mobile phone, has shot up during these days of Corona lockdown! And if we're not careful, that can lead to an aching neck. I wrote in my last post about computer use, and today I'm thinking about mobile phone use. Firstly, we need to be sat or standing in balance. So, double check your weight - is it spread evenly over both feet? Let them be fully supported by the floor. And if you're sitting, how are you sitting? Uncrossing legs is useful, both feet flat on the floor. What tends to happen with a mobile phone, is that we hold it somewhere around our midriff, and then allow our heads (and neck column) to sink towards it. What we want, however, is to keep our heads above our feet (or pelvis if sitting), and raise our arms to bring the phone closer to our eyes that way! Think of your arms coming out of and being supported by your lower back. The shoulders don't need to raise to do this. Think of your neck releasing and your head balancing. Notice what's in your periphery vision. And remember to breathe! I've noticed the same head-sinking behaviour happening when people drink a cuppa ... so maybe pay attention to how you do that too. Bring the cup up to your lips, and not your lips down to your cup. Best wishes, and keep safe :-)
Alexander Technique and laptop use
