Dogs ... and sugar

Lisa Harris • 12 April 2016
I was reflecting on habits yesterday. As an Alexander Technique teacher, I would say that many of the habits we have are neuromuscular, unconscious and unhelpful to us. The Alexander Technique seeks to awaken us to our habits and give us a method of dealing with them so we can diminish any adverse effects from them.

The trouble is, the habits don’t want to go away! I went to see a friend of mine the other day, who has 2 very inquisitive dogs – they like to give anyone new in their house a good sniffing over! She is training them, on the arrival of a guest, to sit, lay down and stay. And they do as they are told. However, as soon as they think her attention might be elsewhere, they have a stretch so their front paws are a bit closer to the guest … then they shuffle their back legs to catch up so they’re not at a full stretch. If that’s not noticed, they do it again, so little by little they inch their noses towards where they want them to be!

And this is what our habits are like. They come creeping back if we forget to remind ourselves that we jolly well don’t want them there. And because they are our habits, they feel good and right to us. However, it’s a bit like having a cup of tea with sugar in it. If you always drink your tea with sugar, you will be used to it. If someone gives you a cup of tea with no sugar, you will certainly know all about it after a sip. But this doesn’t mean that tea with sugar is better for you than tea without … just that it’s different from the norm and you notice it. So it is with our habits – just because hey feel right, it doesn’t mean they are good for us!
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